Child molestation usually happens in the house they live in so therefore their home, the "safe place" has been violated!!! All manner of TRUST has been broken that may never be restored because the hurt is too deep! When you allow something UNWHOLESOME to walk in through your front door thinking he, she or it's ok, you need to open your natural and spiritual eyes!! The reason most people will not open their eyes as to what they've allowed into their ANCHOR RELATIONSHIPS is because they will have to "OWN IT" and they will not face that sad reality!! There are many ways in these days of technology for something to get into your world!!
Be Deliberate, Be Consistent, Be Real and Be Careful as to what you let in through your "Eye Gate and Ear Gate" because everything that looks good to you may not be good for you"!!! Ask yourself theses questions;
1- Do I really need this attraction, distraction in my life?
2- Is there one good wholesome thing that will ever come from this exchange?
3- What is this costing me now that I have allowed this to walk into my life and my thoughts?
4- To what lengths will I go to protect this psychological relationship?
It is time to stop the pain, confusion and destruction of our relationships by simply saying no to our flesh!!!!
"Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour:" (1 Peter 5:8 KJV)
I Believe,
Pastor Scott L. Boatner